ABHAYA

“I am another you”

ABHAYA is an initiative by EMAI to advocate against sexual harassment and abuse. It is guided by EMAI's commitment to nature and people and serves as a powerful voice against sexual harassment and abuse.

VISION

To empower survivors of sexual abuse through counseling and fostering gender education. ABHAYA envisions a future where every individual thrives in a safe and equitable society.

MISSION

ABHAYA stands with survivors of sexual abuse and their families. It offers accessible psychological and legal support, guiding them through their healing journey and advocating for their rights. Together, we work towards a safer future through education and community action.

OPEN HEARTS

A space where individuals can freely share their experiences with counselors and fellow inmates. Here, we not only confess but also seek guidance and offer advice, creating a supportive community where we navigate life's challenges together.

Hear from others

I am a survivor of child sexual abuse. The incident happened when I was 10 years old. A neighbor, someone I should have trusted, violated my innocence. Since then I haven’t told anyone about it for almost a decade. It took years for me to process what happened. I’m not sure what was painful, the incident itself, or the trauma that followed. I felt guilty as I began to hate myself. I was no longer the girl I used to be. To survive is to experience the nightmares that feel all too real. Some days become more like hell. I had disturbing thoughts. I tried cutting myself, took pills, and overdosed on medications. He made me believe that I’m weak. I was scared of sleeping, eating, or anything that triggered me to remember that day. I still hold the scars he left on me. I experienced a lot of emotions and doubted my feelings. Despite anything that happened, I believed I had a future and took that one step forward. Overcoming abuse is not a one-day task. It takes time and sharing it with the right person or professionals can aid in the healing process.
I was 15. Had completed my matriculation with flying colours and for the first time in my life was made to attend tuitions - for Maths, Physics and Chemistry. While the P & C Sirs were ok, the M one wasn't. He was feeling me all over and one day it crossed a threshold, resulting in me complaining to my parents. My sister was awed by my courage - she had also been facing this from him, but couldn't muster up the courage to tell our parents. Well, I was sent to a different class after that, but what was even worse was my mother saying "don't behave/dress properly and then complain that he did that and this" in a completely different context months later. That is weird patriarchy, wouldn't you say - mother to daughter with no man involved? Good for me that my dad never mentioned it ever again, and I didn't have too much respect for my mom. So here I am on the verge of 50, and was able to laugh about the episode when it was recalled to me recently. While I don't believe that any girl can grow up without at least a few such episodes, I do believe that these can impact some severely and scar them for life. Given that the UN predicts we have about 3 centuries to attain gender equality - if the same pace continues that is without any deterioration like what happened during the Covid time - girls have to develop coping mechanisms as an integral part of their survival kit for life. Good Luck!

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Shera square
212, choolaimedu high road choolaimedu
Near Lotus beauty parlour

 

Tamilnadu, India.